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How a Healthy Diet Can Help Addiction Recovery

4/25/2017

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By: Paige Johnson
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​Substance abuse and poor nutrition often go hand-in-hand. Substance users may have irregular eating patterns, poor diet, or be unable to afford quality food. They may be underweight, overweight, or have high blood sugar and low energy. Addiction takes a toll on the body, and when recovery begins, physical health becomes as important as mental health.
 
Proper nutrition is imperative for healing the body of the damages of drug and alcohol abuse. It’s easy for addiction to lead to malnourishment. Alcohol abuse can lead to weight gain from excess calories, stimulant drugs can dangerously reduce the appetite, and addiction itself can inhibit nutrient absorption.
 
Eating a healthy diet full of fresh fruits and vegetables, lean meats, fish, nuts, seeds, and healthy fats can help treat reversible damage to the body and halt progressing injury caused to the brain, organs, cardiovascular system, and immune system by the effects of substance abuse. It can even improve cognitive function from thinking and memory recall to long-term brain health. There are also nutritional needs that are specific to certain types of substance abuse.
AlcoholSince alcohol provides ample calories but little nutrition, alcoholics may face being both overweight and undernourished. In addition to poor nutritional intake, alcohol abuse may also affect how well a person absorbs the nutrients they do consume. Most often, alcohol abusers are deficient in vitamins A and C and thiamine. During recovery, it’s especially important to include these nutrients in a diet. Vitamin A can be found in dark leafy greens, winter squash, and fish, among other sources. Beta-carotene is especially important, so add sweet potatoes and carrots. Vitamin C is found in citrus fruit, kale, bell peppers, and brassicas like broccoli and brussels sprouts. Milk, nuts and seeds, legumes, and eggs are good sources of thiamine, or vitamin B1.
OpiatesOpiates like prescription narcotics and heroin can impact nutrient absorption, and opiate addiction can to lead to calcium, iron, and vitamins D and B6 deficiencies. To replenish the body with these nutrients, recovery should include a diet with plenty of legumes, leafy greens, fish and other seafood, poultry, eggs, and fortified foods like some milk, orange juice, and cereals. Heroin abuse may cause glucose intolerance. To manage this, avoid simple carbohydrates like white bread, white rice, and sweets, and consume whole grains instead. Limit sugar intake and monitor blood sugar, which may cause mood swings.
StimulantsStimulants like cocaine and amphetamines can lead to weight loss from a lack of appetite, and are often deficiency in omega-3 fatty acids, found in some fish, flaxseeds, walnuts, and fortified eggs, milks, and juices. Another common problem for stimulant users is poor dental health; in this case, it’s important to include plenty of calcium and vitamin D in the recovery diet. Potassium, phosphorous, and vitamins K, C, and A also support healthy teeth; eat leafy greens, sweet potatoes, legumes, seafood, and citrus fruits for these important nutrients.
 
A good diet in recovery can help beyond physical healing —it can benefit the mental recovery process as well. The typical high-fat, carb, sugar, and salt Western diet itself has been linked to addictive behavior due to high sugar consumption, and alcohol-dependent people are even known for a sweet tooth. Replicating addictive behavior in one’s diet could potentially hinder the recovery process, whereas good nutrition can promote healthy habits that pervade one’s entire life.
 
Good nutrition can improve every aspect of life, from mental health to recovery from addiction and illness. It’s important not to neglect this crucial aspect of health when healing from addiction.
 
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Author: Paige Johnson
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Working out Relationship Problems

9/23/2016

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by Madlen Pashinian 


I hear it from couples who start counseling almost all the time, “I wanted to come in and work on our problems when they started, but my partner said we didn’t need it, now they wants to come in but it's too late!”
 
Often, one partner becomes unhappy in the relationship when their needs are not being met, and they approach the other partner regarding his or her unhappiness.  Yet, due to a lack of appropriate communication skills, nothing gets resolved. The couple fights, has a screaming match, and a battle of who could say the meanest words to each other. These words, of course, come from pain and resentment. What’s the next step? Do you talk about it or do you just push it down into your gut and pretend like nothing ever happened? Or do you buy the love back with gifts and expensive trips? But where does that really leave your relationship?
 
Here are some quick tips on how to start the process of working on your relationship.

  • Try to talk to your partner about your feelings, or else they will never know! No one is a mind-reader.
  • When talking, come from a caring and loving place, instead of a mean and resentful place.
  • Listen to what your partner is saying, instead of thinking of a “come back”.
  • Learn how to forgive each other, including yourself!
  • Don’t wait until it’s too late to get couple’s counseling, after all, your relationship deserves the work just like other aspects in your life! 

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                                      Balancing Work and Stress Management

9/2/2016

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Recently, American Pop star Selena Gomez announced that she would be taking a break from the public eye, in order to take care of her anxiety and depression. While this is saddening to most, this shows how important it is for everyone, including celebrities like Selena Gomez to balance work and life. Stress management is important for any professional.  
 
Often, we get so wrapped up in our jobs that we forget what really matters. We put in hard work, work overtime, come home and continue to think about work, and forget how to live our lives for ourselves. We forget how to balance our work, then stress takes over and we neglect ourselves.  I understand that it’s hard to shut off your brain from thinking about work when you come home, but when it gets in the way of your health and happiness, you have to ask yourself… what really matters here?
 
I know a lot of people may think, “well it’s easy for you to say that” or “Selena Gomez is a celebrity, she can afford to take time off and relax, I have to pay bills!” Which in response… I agree. Not everyone can take time off whenever they feel like they’re overwhelmed and anxious, while having their bills paid.  So, here are a few tips you can use daily for balancing work and manage your stress, without hurting your pocketbook!
 
  • Set one day (or even half a day) just for yourself where you turn off your mobile phone and not look at work emails. During this time do whatever it is you do to relax, preferably without any electronics.
 
  • Do you have a minute to spare in your busy day? Set your timer and go somewhere quiet where you can just close your eyes for one minute and concentrate on your breathing. You might find your thoughts getting the best of you, but bring yourself back to concentrating on your breathing.
 
  • Pick up a healthy hobby you can do a few times a week, like a 15-minute walk around your neighborhood, drawing, gardening, or whatever helps you relax.
 
Remember, taking care of yourself is just as, if not more than, important as taking care of your job, in order to avoid becoming burnt out!
 
What are some ways you balance your work and manage your stress?
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June 17th, 2016

6/17/2016

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​What If?
 
This two worded questions can drive our imagination and inner thoughts crazy. What if I don’t get a job; what if I never get married; what if I get sick; what if she/he breaks up with me? And the list continues on and on. If we allow it, these two words can send us down a negative, self-destructive path. And since we can’t predict the future, this will leave us anxious and worried.
 
The good news is that the same way our thoughts can send us down a negative spiral, our POSITIVE thoughts can bring us back! First, recognize that you CAN’T predict the future. If you could, then you would be very rich and would not be reading this.  As such, worrying about “what ifs” will not change anything. Instead, bring yourself back to the present, and look at what circumstances you are really dealing with. Try to set some realistic goals and take small steps to get there. Secondly, replace your negative “what ifs” with positive statements or facts. This will boost up your self-esteem and motivate you towards some realistic goals.
 
What are some of your “What ifs” you stress about? Feel free to share below!
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Setting Better Goals

3/28/2016

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Written by Madlen Pashinian, Marriage and Family Therapy Registered Intern

We all know that setting goals in life is important for self-growth. Whether it’s personal or work related, goals are important for motivation and progress. Only you can decide how big or how small your goals will be. It could be as small as drinking more water throughout your day, or maybe one day owning an expensive car. The important part is keeping your goals, staying motivated and giving yourself credit from the small achievements. 

I know that starting something new is difficult and sometimes even scary. You may even worry about failing, which might push you to give up. Here are some positive self-reminders you can tell yourself if you feel like you may give up.

 Take it one day at a time, all of your success doesn’t need to happen in one day, or one week or even in one month.

 Praise yourself for small achievement, it’s important to look back and see how far you have come instead of how far you must still go.

 If you don’t try something, you will never know how well you can do!

 There’s nothing to fear but fear itself, remind yourself that it’s OK if you don’t get there 100% of the time, as long as you tried

 When discouraging thoughts like, “I cant do it”, or “I will never succeed” enter your mind, tell yourself to “STOP”, and say to yourself, “ you CAN do it”, or “If others can do it, so CAN I”

Hope these small reminders help out. Please feel free to leave some comments about your favorite tactics for motivating yourself, and some goals you have achieved.

Good Luck!
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Thanksgiving Gratitude

11/17/2015

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By Madlen Pashinian

​With November already here, Holiday season is right around the corner. This is my favorite time of the year because the holidays bring people together. Starting off with the first great holiday, Thanksgiving! This holiday is one of my favorites because of the great food! Also you can’t deny having the family together is always an interesting experience.
However, not everyone enjoys time with their family, or many don’t have family they can spend time with. The following is a great exercise to practice if you are feeling sad or lonely during this time of the year.
  • For the week of Thanksgiving, list one thing every morning that you are thankful for and the statements cannot repeat. This could be something as simple as, “I have a roof over my head” or “I’m thankful to be alive today.” At the end of the week, read all of them to yourself.
  • Even if you don’t have a family to share Thanksgiving with, try to spend some time with your neighbors, or friends.
  • Cook something special for yourself that you don’t usually make. It doesn’t have to cost much, find a new recipe that you haven’t tried yet, and give it a go!
Be thankful for yourself! You have made it through hard and difficult times. This is a great time to also sit down and reflect on how many difficulties you were able to over come in life!
Yay you! Happy Thanksgiving!
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Thanksgiving Gratitude

11/17/2015

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By Madlen Pashinian
With November already here, Holiday season is right around the corner. This is my favorite time of the year because the holidays bring people together. Starting off with the first great holiday, Thanksgiving! This holiday is one of my favorites because of the great food! Also you can’t deny having the family together is always an interesting experience.
However, not everyone enjoys time with their family, or many don’t have family they can spend time with. The following is a great exercise to practice if you are feeling sad or lonely during this time of the year.
  • For the week of Thanksgiving, list one thing every morning that you are thankful for and the statements cannot repeat. This could be something as simple as, “I have a roof over my head” or “I’m thankful to be alive today.” At the end of the week, read all of them to yourself.
  • Even if you don’t have a family to share Thanksgiving with, try to spend some time with your neighbors, or friends.
  • Cook something special for yourself that you don’t usually make. It doesn’t have to cost much, find a new recipe that you haven’t tried yet, and give it a go!
Be thankful for yourself! You have made it through hard and difficult times. This is a great time to also sit down and reflect on how many difficulties you were able to over come in life!
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Yay you! Happy Thanksgiving!
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The Grass is Greener…

10/14/2015

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By Madlen Pashinian

​No, the grass is NOT greener on the other side; it’s green where you water it!
People that are never satisfied with their own situations, frequently think the grass is always greener on the other side. This leads them to believe that others have it better than they do. Well, I’m here to debunk this common fallacy, and support the notion that the grass is greener wherever you water it. Or, nurture it. This is true with everything in life. Whether it’s your relationships, job, or friends, the more effort and love you put into it, the more rewarding your situation will become.
Think about it, if you continue to put in the love and dedication into your relationship, the same way you did when you first started dating, then the romance will never dry out. If you put the same amount of interest and motivation to your job, as you did in the beginning, then you could go further in your career and even get a promotion.
Suppose you complain and only focus on the negatives in these aspects of your life, instead of focusing on all the positives. Then, you might feel like your life has become the dying grass that you have forgotten to water. Nourish and take care of all your relationships in your life, including the relationship with yourself!
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The Problem Child

9/16/2015

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By Madlen Pashinian

We have all experienced it before… a child that does not listen, no matter what you do. It could be your child, a family member’s child, or even your pupil. No matter how hard we try or how much we punish them, it still doesn’t work. What is the problem here and what can we do about it?
Here are a few questions you should ask yourself about this child.
  • Is the disruptive, hostile and annoying behavior consistent and aimed towards adults and authority figures?
  • Does the child’s behavior disrupt their normal daily activity, either at home and/or school?
  • Does the child actively defy or refuse to cooperate with teachers, parents or any other adult’s requests?
  • Do they blame their misbehavior and mistakes on other people?
  • Does the child become furious, spiteful and vindictive?
  • And lastly does this behavior continue for over 6 months?
If you have answered yes to most of these questions, then maybe it’s time to try a new approach with this child. 
I know that it will not be easy dealing with them and their tantrums; but, you must stay strong and consistent. 
You must always avoid power struggles, if you are familiar with this child, you are very well aware that they will defiantly “one up” you in anything you do. So instead of focusing on the negative behaviors, focus on the positive behaviors when the disruption in not present. For example, if they are quietly doing their work, make sure to state how proud you are of them for doing their work, and phrase their positive behavior. 
With the positive behavior and completed tasks, should come with rewards. So for example if they have been wanting that video game (knowing that it’s age appropriate) you let them know if they behave 4 days out of the week for a consistent time of a few weeks, they will be allowed to play it for half an hour a day or on the weekend.
Some accomplishments are huge! So if they were able to follow directions and complete a chore, you reward them verbally and with a small reward like their favorite snack, or extra play time. 
Make sure to remind them every morning how proud of them you are and how happy you are that they are your children and they always have a choice. When they choose not to cooperate, they do not by any means get a reward. You let them know that they have chosen to behave this way and this kind of behavior does not get rewarded.
With all behavioral issues, please speak to their doctor to rule out any medical problems!
Good luck!
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Relationship Counseling: Where to Start

7/27/2015

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By Madlen Pashinian 

​If you have ever been in a long-term relationship or marriage, you can understand how the relationship may lose its spark, or become boring. Even worse, you may be fighting excessively. In fact, you may even have trouble speaking with each other, or you stop hearing what your partner is trying to say, so you just give up. As time goes on, nothing gets resolved, and now you have found yourself in a rut and don’t know how to get out.
If you are at this point, in your long-term relationship or marriage, then counseling can be very beneficial for you and your partner. Until then, here are some 4 things you want to stay away from at all times, whether you’re in a long-term relationship or marriage, or you’re just beginning a relationship.
Relationship Guru, John Gottman, refers to these four relationship killers as the “Four Horseman of the Apocalypse”.
  • Criticism: During an argument or conversation, you attack or belittle your partner’s character in order to prove yourself right.
  • Contempt: Attacking your partner verbally so calling them hurtful names, mockery and using passive aggressiveness in order to get your point across. Body language also falls into this category, for example, when your partner is expressing their feelings, rolling your eyes or looking down at your phone.
  • Defensiveness: Being defensive, making excuses for your actions, blaming your partner for all the faults, and victimizing yourself, are all examples of defensiveness.
  • Stonewalling: This is where the partner uses the “silent treatment” or any form of withdrawing distancing yourself from your partner without any explanation. This time of disconnect, may also cause anxiety.
So what is the good news? How can you help save your relationship? Well, staying away from these harmful behaviors is a start. Learning how to properly communicate with your partner is essential. Using “I feel ___________ (feeling word)” statements and actively listening to your partner is also very helpful.
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