When you’ve been with someone for several years, it can feel like you’ve already done everything there is to do together. It’s easy to get stuck in your comfortable ways and even feel like you’re in a rut. Remember how exciting your first kiss was? It’s probably not even close to that when you kiss now. And that’s totally normal, as relationships mature, love evolves from crazy butterflies in my stomach to safe, stable, long-lasting commitment (that’s a good thing, I promise). So maybe that kiss is not going to rock your world – but there are some things you can do to feel those butterflies again, regardless of how long you’ve been with your partner.
Shake things up.
Try doing something that is outside the box of your relationship. If you have brunch on Sundays, try going on a hike. Are you a Friday night movie couple? Why not try a cooking class instead? Experiencing something new and different with your partner will help increase cohesion, excitement, and happiness within your relationship.
Don’t take it for granted.
Make a conscious effort to appreciate your partner. Though it’s great to know your relationship is stable and long-term, it’s always important to nurture your relationship for increased satisfaction for both parties. Date nights, communication, counseling (even if you’re not struggling) can all help with fostering a happier relationship.
Shake things up.
Try doing something that is outside the box of your relationship. If you have brunch on Sundays, try going on a hike. Are you a Friday night movie couple? Why not try a cooking class instead? Experiencing something new and different with your partner will help increase cohesion, excitement, and happiness within your relationship.
Don’t take it for granted.
Make a conscious effort to appreciate your partner. Though it’s great to know your relationship is stable and long-term, it’s always important to nurture your relationship for increased satisfaction for both parties. Date nights, communication, counseling (even if you’re not struggling) can all help with fostering a happier relationship.